Dear Abby – Advise for Families with Lots ‘o Kids and Lots o’ Clutter

Is moderate clutter in your house a bone of contention?

Jeanne_phillipsToday’s Dear Abby has some advise for a single father who is struggling between taking proper care of his children, and keeping his house clutter-free.  The man’s lady-friend says he should cut-back on his soccer-dad carpools, and stay home more often to keep things tidy.  Dear Abby has some different advise and we couldn’t agree more.

What’s our take?  The father should dump the neat and tidy lady-friend and downsize the family’s possessions.  He should look at the important stuff in his life and dedicate a consistent home for those items.  Eventually, he’ll have less stuff to take care of, and maintain– including the lady-friend.  The father should also engage the kids to take part-ownership in family housekeeping.

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Your comments?

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2 responses to “Dear Abby – Advise for Families with Lots ‘o Kids and Lots o’ Clutter”

  1. Monica Ricci Avatar

    John, one of the things I am passionate about is children having responsibilities in the home. Abby was right on target in that regard. And you’re right on target to say that dad needs to downsize the possessions and the relationship so he can focus on his kids and making a nice life AND a nice home for them. ~Monica

  2. Amanda Avatar

    If he cleaned up, he could probably have the girl scout meetings in his home… and make his lady friend cater them!!!! But Abby’s right, if Dad’s working, the kids should be cleaning.

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